UFS111-1st Reflection

LOVE

-Love have a variety related but dinstinct meanings in different contexts. Love is sometimes referred to as being the "INTERNATIONAL LANGUAGE" overriding cultural & linguistic divisions. A person can be said to love an object, principle, or goal if they value it greatly & are deeply committed to it. Love can be determined when someone felt strange in he/her heart when meet at first time. But, it can happen between family members and friends too. But for me, love is very wonderful thing. Love can make us happy, felling as appreciated by someone who is very meaningful in our life. Love is always associated in between two person of the opposite sex. 

Love is something very magical. When we falling in love with someone, not to mention it was the first love, we  always will thinking of the person that admire you, person that carrying you the most, person that you need the most in your life. It will change your routine, for example, you have no appetite as usually. Love is the worries in your mind, when you are not unrequited love as always. You will wonder, where he/she went, if the person that you love, do not give any response when you inquired about his/her condition. 

Love likes a drugs, sometimes it will kill us inside, sometimes it will give serenity for anything condition. For example, when he/she has broken your heart, you will cry so many days and night, it always happens to the girls, rarely for the boys. After that, you will suffer a pain in your heart, especially for the things that really broke your heart. You must show your respect to the people, so they can respect you. You must make happy to yourself before others. Love is the most important in our life, without it we are nobody.

PUBLIC DISPLAY of AFFECTION

-Public Display of Affection are pretty much exactly what they sound like, namely any physical public display of affection between two people in a public area, such as hand holding, hugging or kissing. Public Display of Affection are act of physical intimacy in the view of others. Physical intimacy are regarded as unobjectionable forms of public display of affection in many culture & context, but objectionable in others. Maintaining eye contact can be regarded socially & psychologically as analogous in some cultures. What are acceptable displays of affection vary between cultures as well as to time & context. Which acts are acceptable have also varied over time.

In some context, such as in bars, nightclub, & strip clubs more extreme forms of physical intimacy are sometimes acceptable. In these places, acts such as GRINDING & FRENCH KISSING are common but acts of a sexual nature, such as FROTTEURISM & GROPING, are normally unacceptable physical contact.

Physical contact is common during couple dancing, but acts of  physical intimacy are normally avoided. If the partner enjoy being seen affectionate towards each other in public, it may be considered a mild form of EXHIBITIONISM. Alternatively, the partners may be indifferent that others see them and therefore are not inhibited by it. Finally, the partner may prefer more privacy, but may simply tolerate being seen by others. Some find it pleasant to view others public displays of affection, which may be considered a form of VOYEURISM.In this century, we always seen people showing they affection love to public. But, we always seen in western countries. The type of affection is include such as holding hand, kissing, hugging and acting like husband and wife. Not less at Malaysia. Youths today, especially the Malays, doing the horrible things, should not doing that, because Malaysia is an Islamic countries. The government efforts to combat this menace. But it is still happening, but also on the rise. Parents should be aware of this problem. Teenagers without a better sight from parents, will involved in this problem.
          This bad behavior should not be cultivated in our country. It is was a shame and will undermine the dignity of a person and their family too.
I can accept when a couples just holding hands, friendly joking, it is still good to me. But, I felt disgusted when a couples doing attitude all the more in-front of public, such as kissing. This people like this, always doing that affection which the others doesn't see them. If this is being ignored, first problem,  pregnant will occur to the woman. The second problem, is abandonment occur too. This is should be alarm to anyone.
           In addition, I just thought how a couples feeling when they doing such as kissing in-front of public? Are they do not mind at all? Or maybe, they just think it is normal?
As a whole, I don't like it, and I want to shout to them, go away! That is all about my feeling about public display of affection. Make affection love is not wrong, but please respect people around. Some people also have the uncomfortable feeling when they see the attitude.